いらいしませ。。。: Lady Mitsuko Aoyama (Biography)

Lady Mitsuko is a popular figure in Japanese film and a musical was devoted to her life. She is also the main character of the manga, Lady Mitsuko by Waki Yamato

Mitsuko, Countess of Coudenhove-Kalergi (German: Mitsuko, Gräfin von Coudenhove-Kalergi; 7 July 1874 - 27 August 1941), formerly known as Mitsu Aoyama (青山みつ^?), was one of the first Japanese people to emigrate to Europe, after becoming the wife of an Austrian diplomat, Heinrich von Coudenhove-Kalergi, in Tokyo. She was the mother of Richard Nikolaus Graf von Coudenhove-Kalergi.

Mitsuko Aoyama
Countess of Coudenhove-Kalergi

Mitsuko Coudenhove-Kalergi
	Heinrich Coudenhove-Kalergi
House	Coudenhove-Kalergi
Born	July 7, 1874 Tokyo, Japan
Died	August 27, 1941 (aged 67) Mödling, Austria

The daughter of an antiques-dealer and oil tycoon in Tokyo, aged 17 she met the Austro-Hungarian diplomat Dr. Count Heinrich von Coudenhove-Kalergi when she came to help him when his horse slipped on ice (Heinrich often visited her father's shop, not far from the Austrian legation). Heinrich gained her father's permission for her to be employed as a parlour maid in the legation and then (after they fell in love) for them to marry. The latter request was refused, but the couple defied him, marrying on 16 March 1892 in Tokyo with the consent of the Austrian and Japanese foreign ministries. This left her disinherited and banned from her father's house. In 1896 she was received at an imperial reception for foreign diplomats' wives by Empress Eishō (as a commoner Mitsuko would never have been granted such an audience, but as a countess and ambassador's wife she was) and again on the end of Heinrich's diplomatic work shortly afterwards.

The couple then returned to Europe with his wife and their two sons (Johannes and Richard), taking over his family estates in Bohemian Ronsperg, where five more children were born to them. Mitsuko never again returned to Japan, but learned French, German, maths, geography and history in an attempt to counter hostility to Heinrich coming home with a foreign wife. Heinrich died in 1906 and Mitsuko took over the estates and the children's upbringing and education, also studying law and economics herself. She died in 1941 and was buried in the Hietzinger Cemetery.